'Cause for every lie I tell them, they tell me three. So I play 'em like a violin. So I play 'em like a violin. [32] Writing for Slant Magazine, Sal Cinquemani observed that "I Did Something Bad" is one of the songs that make Reputation "impenetrable", leaving listeners to "search for the humanity". This will create an email alert. But it shouldn't have to be- this should make sense to her already. 2017. But my wife turned out to be a masterful liar. She performed the song at the Reputation Stadium … Press J to jump to the feed. she lied to me about how long she was gonna be at his place, a couple hours turned into coming home at midnight. it depends how bad this something was and if you really liked her as a teacher then why did you post mean things about her. She's making up BS excuses. It was mixed at Mixstar Studios in Virginia Beach, Virginia, and mastered at Sterling Sound Studios in New York City. She has a high paying job, bought a place, and has established herself in the area (her name is known). Why are you holding on to somebody that’s cheating on you ? Kick her out and get an attorney now. And in the end, the stress of it led me to some dark, dark places, friend. And I only know that they reduced contact shortly after and that was that. I don't know for sure what I'm going to do. No proper partner would allow this to continue. Your offer comes in at $55k. I Did Something Bad. Your wife is cheating on you. All I can say is I've been there and I feel for you. [15][20], "I Did Something Bad" is track number three on Reputation, which was released worldwide on November 10, 2017, by Big Machine Records. [6][7], Swift wrote "I Did Something Bad" with its producers, Max Martin and Shellback. But something needs to change. SO I do feel bad for her to drop all that to come with me. I would have been gone. If the tables were turned and she read sexual messages from YOUR ex who you’ve been hanging around and comforting etc etc..how do you think she would react? Today I found messages from him about "watching what she says before he fucks the titties off her for head" or getting her cute tushy down there before I found out. [6], CS1 maint: others in cite AV media (notes) (, "Ask Billboard: Taylor Swift's Career Sales & Streaming Totals, From 'Tim McGraw' to 'You Need to Calm Down, "Taylor Swift Chart History: Billboard Hot 100", "5 things Taylor Swift's past USA Today interviews tell us about her 'Reputation' era", "Taylor Swift avoided – and mocked – the media with 'Reputation.' They have no empathy and no shame, they will not be trying to mitigate the any of these behaviors, they only care about themselves. You can have hope that she steps up, that it's not permanent, but talking it out will NEVER get you what you want. [5] Describing the album as "cathartic", Swift followed the songwriting for her 2014 single "Blank Space", on which she satirized her perceived image. Someone you can trust and not feel that gut feeling that something is wrong. [13] The song is accompanied by a maximalist electronic production,[14] backed by a stomping beat, pulsing synthesizers, manipulated vocals, and an Auto-Tune-modified bridge. I hope that you make the best decision for you. Them contacting an ex is a standard move for farming supply. [11] Rolling Stone critic Rob Sheffield characterized it as 1990s grunge, a sound that recalls the music of Eddie Vedder and Scott Weiland. She is cheating on you. "[19] She also hints that strong women often get chastised by society: "They're burning all the witches, even if you aren't one / Go ahead and light me up. This would be another cause for concern and to question whether she is cheating or not. [Outro] Em G So bad, why's it feel so good? And if she hasn't yet - I dont think it's far fetched to say she will as she's already crossed serious boundaries. I've always felt like there was something going on there. The album sold over six million copies in the U.S. and spawned three Billboard Hot 100 number-one singles: "Shake It Off", "Blank Space", and "Bad Blood". And I make it look—oh—so easy. You will later look back on all of the signs you ignored when you have a chronology of what happened. Em Most fun I ever had G C And I'd do it over and over and over again if I could Am D It just felt so good, good [Instrumental] Em Ra-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta G Ra-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta C Oh, you say I did something bad (You say I did something bad) Am D Then why's it feel so good, good? I understand why people are saying that. Also, please change the title... it should be "My wife is screwing her ex, she is heartless". You deserve someone that prioritizes you and your relationship. Put in easy terms: The simplest explanation is usually the right one. Also most of us understand the mindset of blindly trusting someone because we’ve done it ourselves, no advice will be enough at this stage. Sometimes the lies are so outrageous we think to ourselves, "That's too absurd NOT to be true...". If another man said such things to me I would have cut them off at that point and same for my husband if the roles were reversed. This morning I went through my wife w BPD phone. I don't want to go through life without my wife, I love her with all of my heart. She would claim that she would just be there for an hour or two and ended up staying until midnight and getting piss drunk. So if you find texts from him, bossing her around and talking about "fucking her titties off" (along with the events described in your basement), you can bet your ass that there's some substance to this, especially if she doesn't see a problem with it and is not willing to put a stop to this. I'm convinced I caught nothing it just looked bad, she said she had been coughing a lot from smoking too much. More posts from the BPDlovedones community. If there wasn't an issue then she shouldn't care if you went thru her phone (I wouldn't care if my husband went thru my phone except to worry why he felt he needed to). This is going to be really, really hard to hear... and it takes me back to when someone told me this to my face... but if you worry she is cheating on you, she most likely is. From an outsiders perspective it really does look like she is cheating. Good luck though bud, I hope it all turns out ok. Shop high-quality unique I Did Something Bad T-Shirts designed and sold by artists. Listen to I Did Something Bad on Spotify. If she’s not cheating on you now then she likely will. You walked in on them fooling around for Pete's sake! You will struggle to pay your emotional bills. "I Did Something Bad", the album's third song, was written on the piano. Shed lied about that because she didn't want me to get mad about taking pot down there (its across state lines). I can see how I could.be in denial. Any advice? The lyrics are about Swift's lack of remorse after acknowledging her allegedly wrongful behaviors that caused a sensation, inspired by the female charact… Go see a lawyer and start locking down your assets. when they were here I came down to the basement with them sitting really close, her hair messed up and glasses off and both of them really flustered. My wife responded the same way... and it worked. [31] Jordan Bassett from NME agreed, calling it the song that represents the album. Suppose your dream job came your way and the right salary for it is $100k/yr. Typical BPD behavior to cheat and then make you feel guilty for checking. [26] It was Swift's fifth time performing at the American Music Awards. It did wonders for me. But that is what she is willing to do if I marry her. That's not too much to ask at all after what he has texted her. Her reputation was blemished from publicized disputes with other celebrities, including rapper Kanye West, media personality Kim Kardashian, and singer Katy Perry. A visual spinning loader for iOS indicating that the page is performing an action. She absolutely used my conscience against me and it wasn’t until her friends came to me that the wool was uncovered from my eyes. You don’t deserve to be treated like shit. Isn’t it clear she fucking her ex meanwhile she’s in a relationship with you? It'd be wrong to check her phone if you had no reason to be suspicious, but lets be honest, you caught them in the act and still want to pretend it's not what you know it is. The song received mixed reviews from critics, who were either impressed by the production and Swift's self-assertion or critical of the themes of drama and vengeance. How could someone we love lie so blatantly? The song was written by Swift and its producers, Max Martin and Shellback. Her tactic is to make you feel guilty so you back off. The lyrics are about Swift's lack of remorse after acknowledging her allegedly wrongful behaviors that caused a sensation, inspired by the female characters Sansa and Arya Stark of the fantasy series Game of Thrones. Walk now dude. Literally I could have written this post two years ago. They lie about small things. The exact same thing happened to me. But at the end of the day, even from this brief post, I am all but certain your wife is manipulating you... as mine was to me. Don't feel guilty for looking at her phone and don't let her make you feel that way. Please consider going to individual therapy. "I Did Something Bad". [15] She tells a man who crossed her, "I don't regret it one bit / 'cause he had it coming. What I'm saying is, if you just accept this behavior and don't put your foot down, you'll be in for a rude awakening. Until this day, I don't know for sure if that' was really all there was to it. "[12], Credits are adapted from the liner notes of Reputation. Get the fuck out! It took me a year of therapy to learn to trust my gut and my instincts and what I was seeing as real. I had a similar situation with my ex-wife: I see similarities in your wife's behaviors, her responses to those behaviors... but most importantly, I see myself in your responses to her behaviors... you and I seem cut from the same cloth. Try and open your eyes dude, I know it sounds strange but journal what’s happening, every lie and every disrespectful thing she says or does, this will help you in the later stages of rumination . You are in what we call the "fog". They lie about big things. But at the same time, she knows how much it hurts me she's so close with an ex and has been acting strange towards me for a few months. This is how the world works. Crimson red paint on my lips. But everyone else has stated these things so I'll just add something a little different-. How could we marry someone so cruel? [6], "I Did Something Bad" was described by Billboard as "electro-trap". I can feel the flames on my skin. I never trust a narcissist, but they love me. [17] Media publications interpreted "I Did Something Bad" as Swift's answer to the tumultuous media scrutiny on her personal life and celebrity, affected by the publicized disputes and relationships with other celebrities. "I Did Something Bad" is a song by American singer-songwriter Taylor Swift, taken from her sixth studio album, Reputation (2017). Start preparing. Now all he thinks about is me. He deemed it "appropriately massive, with brilliantly deliberate pacing, a perfect pause-for-effect after her 'If a man talks shit then I owe him nothing' lyric, and the best awards show use of a massive snake since Britney Spears in 2001". By Molly M. You have to kick her out or leave. They say I did something bad, ah Then why's it feel so good? You are not over-reacting. [10] The track was engineered at MXM Studios in Los Angeles and Stockholm. You didn't do anything bad. You checked her phone because you KNOW the truth but want to find something to prove you're wrong. You found illicit messages between her and another man (as did I)... yet SHE is the one outraged? I just wanted to say how sorry I am. Even in a healthier relationship not affected by mental illness, this behavior is questionable at the least. About I Did Something Bad "I Did Something Bad" is a song by American singer-songwriter Taylor Swift from her sixth studio album Reputation (2017). I love my wife, even with everything we've been through, I've never stopped loving her. Here are the chords to 'I Did Something Bad' by Taylor Swift! I would make that my hill to die on, that she doesn't communicate with him anymore. I know; I was too friend. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. [1][2] Swift continued to be a major target of tabloid gossip during the promotion of 1989. They say I did something bad But why's it feel so good? she gave him hella money without telling me. If she fights you on that or argues any other reason not to cut him off entirely then she is not prioritizing you or your marriage. "[15][19] The lyric "If a man talks shit then I owe him nothing" marks the first time Swift uses profanity in a song. He later claimed that he only wrote these things to mess with me and make me jealous because he anticipated that I would take note of his messages. It features a heavy electronic production that combines electro-trap, grunge and EDM elements, incorporating manipulated vocals and electronic instruments. I never trust a narcissist, but they love me. You need to toughen up and take action. I've been there, friend. Mine dragged out my suffering from May to July because like you I am a fair man and felt guilty I didn’t have concrete proof. The song has a length of three minutes and fifty-eight seconds. She had short-lived romantic relationships with Scottish producer Calvin Harris and English actor Tom Hiddleston. Open your eyes. [8][9] Swift initially developed the track on a piano; in an interview with iHeartRadio, Swift explained that the idea for the production came to her in a dream. When we started dating she was still visiting her then best friend about once every one or two weeks. I hope you find the best solution for yourself. They lie to you since day 1 of knowing them. Theres a reason you felt you had to look at her phone which you stated is quite unlike you. This is how the world works. In general: I've grown to refer to Occhams Razor in situations like this. And it worked", "9 Taylor Swift Moments That Didn't Fit in Our Cover Story", "How Max Martin Built a Pop Sound Then Lost His Grip on the Charts", "The Old Taylor Swift Is Hiding Within Reputation", "Taylor Swift's iHeartRadio reputation Release Party: Everything We Learned", "Taylor Swift's 'I Did Something Bad' Gets a Broadway-Worthy Cover by Cynthia Erivo & Shoshana Bean", "Every Taylor Swift song ranked in order of greatness", "Taylor Swift Is a 2017 Pop Machine on 'Reputation,' but at What Cost? "[20] Rob Sheffield of Rolling Stone said: "This is just waiting for her to turn it into a head-banging live guitar monster. [4], She conceived her sixth studio album, Reputation, as an answer to the media commotion surrounding her celebrity. It was so difficult because, like you, I loved my wife. 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